Love Marriage or Arranged Marriage, Which is better

During the past century in India, parents are much opposed to Love marriage, According to parents Love marriage tends to go towards failure and it has no backings from society. But statistcs prove that Both forms of marriages are having equal chance of failure or success.

Love Marriage :

Love marriage happens when two opposite sexual people tends to think, live laugh with proper understanding. Before a love marriage, both Guy and Gal tends to understand each other (atleast on paper) by knowing their interest, Hobbies, characters, culture, views, and lot others. they tend to spend more time alone and share whatever they can to build the relationship. In love marriage both understands eachother needs, views, and there will be a spark of love between each other from the start. On a flip side still in India love marriage is considered as a social injustice and there is no social backup for those who do love marriage. Parents oppose these kind of marriage because they do not know anything about the Girl/Guy before marriage.

Arrange Marriage:

Arrange marriage is the one which is happening from the past in India. Arrange marriage tends to have a little slight ups in terms of failure or success in India. Parents of India still backing this type of arranged Marraige where parents select the Girl/ Guy for their son/ daughter. Parents enquire everything about the bride/groom (A full background verification which is happening in software industry) and get satisfied with the information they collect from various sourcecs. Once they get satisfaction they speak about other needs ( in the name of bride/groom's facility) for them. Arranged marriage has social backings from father, mother, in laws, reltion and everyone. On the flip side Both Bride and groom never know each other (now a little change in this) till the day they get married.

But parents argue that arranged marriage will lead to successful marriage life not the Love marriage which is not having any socical backings. So which is better type of marriage. Love marriage or Arranged Marriage. As parents say Love marriage tends to go towards Failure; What creates that failure. Since both guy and gal tend to know eachother before marriage what makes their marriage a failure life. A million Dollar Question that is to be asked.

In arranged marriage the compatibility plays a crucial part (all ten matchings must match - No matter the heart) in the selection process ( oops! we are not talking about the job vaccency here, but finding a suitable match for our son / daughter). Then the bridegoom's Families other needs ( to facilitate the living style of bride) plays another crucial factor in arranged marriage (is this reason of loosing this other needs in a love marriage stops parents). Parents tend to ask anything under sky and if the bride family accepts then the bride is selected for their son. Some community never ask the girl whether she likes the guy. they stop others mouth just by a single sentence, Parent's know what is good for their children.

Which marriage type is Better Love or Arranged, What is the solution to make a social injustice type of marriage to a acceptable type.

I have a solution where parents select/ approve a candidate (oops! again the Job term), and provide the employment as bride/ bridegroom and allow time for them to understand eachother. Hey are we talking something like a dating type. Yup it is a kind of dating where both parents accepts. There are number of dating sites available which helps you to choose perfect companion for your life. One such is bepenfriends.com.

but tell me, which type of Marriage is better for you.........