Monday, February 14, 2005

Long distance friends and Long term friendship

Long distance friends and Long term friendship
We may get a lot of short term friendship which is like getting into theater and leaving after the show is over. These will not stay in our hearts. But when we get a long term friendships It stays in the mind and brain. Long term friendships will emerge from those who are in regular contacts and near by. Long distance relationships rarely survive for a long time. It is like "I will think about my long distance friend may be once in a year". In this friendship also there is some exceptions. People who is in regular contact with each other will get a long term friendship. They will think about friendships a lot more than others. Friends who are in least physical distance gets a everlasting friendship than a long distance friendship. But for some long term friendship Distance is not a major factor. Even after being seperated from thousand miles away people stay as friends forever.

Communication with Friend and long term friendship

For getting good long term friendship communication and effort of strengthening friendship is the key component. Friendship will survive when there is a regular contacts. In this Information world there is lot of ways for communications. Cards, Emails, Short messages, gifts, get-together, Telephones and a lot of ways. We need to keep our childhood friends also. It is important for continuty in our lives.The childhood memories are unforgettable for any person in this world. The most enjoyable time in our entire life is during childhood days. When we get friends during that time will also be ever enjoyable. There are many friends who used to send lot og greetings, some forwarded message from one friend to another. These persons really interested in our friendship and tries to keep our friendship alive. If you don't have anything to say to your friend, Just say a "HI". It will keep you in touch with the friends.Emails is great! It helps us a lot in keeping our friendship alive. A written communication is a precious jewel in our friendship. The same is for phone cal. When we are doing these two things, we think about the friendship between us not the other things. In our mind nothing comes thank our friendship. So Communication is a must in long term friendships. There is another biggest jewel in the Friendships which is precious than kohinoor diamond. It is sharing physical vibration in same room and experienceing with all your senses. Visit the long distance friend once in a while. make some time for meeting him physically rather than sending emails. It creates a lot of surpraises by strengthing your friendships and never let it die. A physical contact is a best way to express ourselves that "I CARE OUR FRIENDSHIP". try to make a visit to your long distance, long term friendships.

Conclusion

Close distance friendships tend to survive as long term friendships and also the friendships which are in regular contact will also help in long term friendship. Friendships which is lasting for lifetime is very precious in this fast running world and also it is very important to have atleast some long term friendship because they are the friends who give their shoulders for us when we are in need of support.

So have you found what will be the answers for the above questions. The answer is very simple and easy. its "COMMUNICATION". Communication is a best way to keep friendships survive. tell a thanks to Alexander Graham Bell, Tim berners lee and others who created the devices for effective communication and find long term friendships

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