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My First Time
The sky was dark
The moon was high
All alone just she and I.
Her hair was soft
Her eyes were blue
I knew just what she wanted to do.
Her skin so soft
Her legs so fine
I ran my fingers down her spine.
I didn't know how
But I tried my best
I started by placing my hands on her breast.
I remember my fear my fast beating heart
But slowly she spread her legs apart
And when I did it I felt no shame.
All at once the white stuff came
At last it's finished it's all over now
My first time ever at milking a cow.....
Taken from an email
Tuesday, February 28, 2006
Sunday, February 26, 2006
I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF
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I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....
you have to think before you speak to me!
I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....
my presence ever makes you feel uncomfortable!
I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....
you have to thank me for everything i do for you!
I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....
you have to say sorry for everything that you don't do!
I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....
you have to ask me for favours!
I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....
you think i would not be curious to know your new philosophy of life!
I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....
you go by what i say and do not understand what i don't say!
I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....
you think that listening to your dreams would put me to sleep!
I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....
you think that seeing you in pain, would not bring a tear to me!
I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....
you think I do not remember the first time we met!
I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....
you don't see the thousand ways I try to make you happy!
I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....
you don't realise how your smile brightens up my day!
I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....
you would rather keep quiet when you really wanna talk!
I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....
you hesitate to ask me to stay back when you think we should be together!
I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....
you take too much time to tell me what i mean to you!
Am I Your FRIEND ????
"A SMILE can Take You MILES...."
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I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....
you have to think before you speak to me!
I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....
my presence ever makes you feel uncomfortable!
I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....
you have to thank me for everything i do for you!
I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....
you have to say sorry for everything that you don't do!
I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....
you have to ask me for favours!
I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....
you think i would not be curious to know your new philosophy of life!
I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....
you go by what i say and do not understand what i don't say!
I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....
you think that listening to your dreams would put me to sleep!
I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....
you think that seeing you in pain, would not bring a tear to me!
I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....
you think I do not remember the first time we met!
I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....
you don't see the thousand ways I try to make you happy!
I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....
you don't realise how your smile brightens up my day!
I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....
you would rather keep quiet when you really wanna talk!
I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....
you hesitate to ask me to stay back when you think we should be together!
I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....
you take too much time to tell me what i mean to you!
Am I Your FRIEND ????
"A SMILE can Take You MILES...."
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Friday, February 24, 2006
How To Get A Woman's Phone Number And Email Address Within Three Minutes Of Meeting Her
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How To Get A Woman's Phone Number And Email Address Within Three Minutes Of Meeting Her
By David DeAngelo
Let me start off by telling you something interesting:
I've personally stopped focusing on just getting phone numbers. I've found that EMAIL addresses are far better (I still get the phone number too, of course).
Let me explain.
I perfected the art of getting phone numbers a couple of years ago.
If a woman is single, I can walk up to her and get her number in about a minute or two (if I'm in a hurry). I found out later, after working like a mad scientist on this that GETTING PHONE NUMBERS ALONE DOESNT'T EQUAL SUCCESS.
You see, women have many different reasons for giving out their phone numbers. Some love the attention of having a lot of men call them. Some like to turn guys down. Some are actually interested. But the universal feedback that I get from men, and in my personal experience, women act different on the phone than they do in person.
When you call a woman for the first time, she'll often start acting stand offish or even worse, just plain rude. It's almost like she's a different person than the one you met.
I've found that getting an EMAIL address is not only easier, but it gets more positive responses later on. It's almost as if women appreciate it that you've taken the time to think about what you're going to say when you write an email to them, and they think of you more like someone they know.
The other benefit of email is that it can be written and answered anytime.
If you call, you have to actually reach them. But an email can be answered anytime. And I've found that emails are answered FAR more often than voicemail messages.
HERE'S THE HOW TO:
After I've talked to a woman for about 3 or 4 minutes, I'll often say something like "Well, it was nice meeting you. I'm going to get back to my friends."
They usually don't know what to do, as they're used to guys clinging to them. Most of the time, they say "It was nice meeting you too..." Then, just as I'm turning to walk away, and we kind of disconnect, I turn back and say "HEY! Do you have email?"
The "HEY!" is a bit surprising, and "Do you have email" is non-threatening. In fact, I'm technically asking her if she HAS email, not if she'll GIVE IT TO ME.
If she says "yes," I take out a pen and paper and say "Great, write it down for me" and I have her write it down. (This is great, as I just treat the 'yes' that they give me as a yes to get it from them as well. And they've almost ALL gone along with it so far) Then AS SHE'S IN THE MIDDLE OF WRITING, I say "Write your number down there too."
When you ask for email, it's very low risk for a woman, so she'll think "Fine, I'll do that." Most women will give out an email address without thinking about it, because they know that they can choose later to just not answer.
The magic of asking them to write their phone number down WHILE they're in the middle of writing down their email is all about the psychology of human behavior.
She's already mentally said "OK, I'll give you my email address"... and she's in the middle of writing it down. When you say "And just write your number down there too" it's only NATURAL to just write it.
In other words, it's a MUCH smaller step than giving out the phone number all by itself. It took me a LONG time to figure out this simple move, but it works like magic! You will have women writing their phone numbers down without even thinking twice.
Here's a great add-on to make sure you're getting a real phone number and not a pager or voicemail:
As she's writing down her phone number I say "Is this a number that you actually answer?" If she looks at me and hesitates, or says that it's her "voicemail or pager number," then I say "Look, write your real number down. It's going to be OK, I'll only call you nine times a day..." They laugh and usually give me their real number.
Now, if she answers my first question and says "No, I don't have email" then I bust on them and say "Well, do you have electricity?" This is a GREAT opportunity to use humor.
Then I say "Well, OK then. I like email better, but I'll take your regular phone number. It's so damn hard to reach people on the phone these days."
Just realize that all you have to do is ask.
Like I said, I've tried all kinds of things. And I've gotten hundreds of phone numbers. And I use this exact sequence every time I talk to a woman and I want to get her phone number. I've gotten to the point where I can often do this in a minute or two - no kidding!
Now that you know the sequence, write it down with the words and the steps, and rehearse it in your mind over and over until you know exactly what to say for each step and each response.
Many guys have asked me "But what do I tell her as a reason why I want her number or email?" I've never had a woman ask me. If you ask, and they give it, then she knows why you asked. If she doesn't give it to you, then she also knew why you asked.
Just assume that this is the case.
If you ask every time, and you do it in a smooth, assuming, calm way, you'll get a lot of emails and phone numbers.
Note: Carry a pen on you at all times. I prefer the Fisher Space Pen (chrome) because it's small, classy, and women love it!
Source : http://www.dating-tips-online.com
How To Get A Woman's Phone Number And Email Address Within Three Minutes Of Meeting Her
By David DeAngelo
Let me start off by telling you something interesting:
I've personally stopped focusing on just getting phone numbers. I've found that EMAIL addresses are far better (I still get the phone number too, of course).
Let me explain.
I perfected the art of getting phone numbers a couple of years ago.
If a woman is single, I can walk up to her and get her number in about a minute or two (if I'm in a hurry). I found out later, after working like a mad scientist on this that GETTING PHONE NUMBERS ALONE DOESNT'T EQUAL SUCCESS.
You see, women have many different reasons for giving out their phone numbers. Some love the attention of having a lot of men call them. Some like to turn guys down. Some are actually interested. But the universal feedback that I get from men, and in my personal experience, women act different on the phone than they do in person.
When you call a woman for the first time, she'll often start acting stand offish or even worse, just plain rude. It's almost like she's a different person than the one you met.
I've found that getting an EMAIL address is not only easier, but it gets more positive responses later on. It's almost as if women appreciate it that you've taken the time to think about what you're going to say when you write an email to them, and they think of you more like someone they know.
The other benefit of email is that it can be written and answered anytime.
If you call, you have to actually reach them. But an email can be answered anytime. And I've found that emails are answered FAR more often than voicemail messages.
HERE'S THE HOW TO:
After I've talked to a woman for about 3 or 4 minutes, I'll often say something like "Well, it was nice meeting you. I'm going to get back to my friends."
They usually don't know what to do, as they're used to guys clinging to them. Most of the time, they say "It was nice meeting you too..." Then, just as I'm turning to walk away, and we kind of disconnect, I turn back and say "HEY! Do you have email?"
The "HEY!" is a bit surprising, and "Do you have email" is non-threatening. In fact, I'm technically asking her if she HAS email, not if she'll GIVE IT TO ME.
If she says "yes," I take out a pen and paper and say "Great, write it down for me" and I have her write it down. (This is great, as I just treat the 'yes' that they give me as a yes to get it from them as well. And they've almost ALL gone along with it so far) Then AS SHE'S IN THE MIDDLE OF WRITING, I say "Write your number down there too."
When you ask for email, it's very low risk for a woman, so she'll think "Fine, I'll do that." Most women will give out an email address without thinking about it, because they know that they can choose later to just not answer.
The magic of asking them to write their phone number down WHILE they're in the middle of writing down their email is all about the psychology of human behavior.
She's already mentally said "OK, I'll give you my email address"... and she's in the middle of writing it down. When you say "And just write your number down there too" it's only NATURAL to just write it.
In other words, it's a MUCH smaller step than giving out the phone number all by itself. It took me a LONG time to figure out this simple move, but it works like magic! You will have women writing their phone numbers down without even thinking twice.
Here's a great add-on to make sure you're getting a real phone number and not a pager or voicemail:
As she's writing down her phone number I say "Is this a number that you actually answer?" If she looks at me and hesitates, or says that it's her "voicemail or pager number," then I say "Look, write your real number down. It's going to be OK, I'll only call you nine times a day..." They laugh and usually give me their real number.
Now, if she answers my first question and says "No, I don't have email" then I bust on them and say "Well, do you have electricity?" This is a GREAT opportunity to use humor.
Then I say "Well, OK then. I like email better, but I'll take your regular phone number. It's so damn hard to reach people on the phone these days."
Just realize that all you have to do is ask.
Like I said, I've tried all kinds of things. And I've gotten hundreds of phone numbers. And I use this exact sequence every time I talk to a woman and I want to get her phone number. I've gotten to the point where I can often do this in a minute or two - no kidding!
Now that you know the sequence, write it down with the words and the steps, and rehearse it in your mind over and over until you know exactly what to say for each step and each response.
Many guys have asked me "But what do I tell her as a reason why I want her number or email?" I've never had a woman ask me. If you ask, and they give it, then she knows why you asked. If she doesn't give it to you, then she also knew why you asked.
Just assume that this is the case.
If you ask every time, and you do it in a smooth, assuming, calm way, you'll get a lot of emails and phone numbers.
Note: Carry a pen on you at all times. I prefer the Fisher Space Pen (chrome) because it's small, classy, and women love it!
Source : http://www.dating-tips-online.com
Saturday, February 11, 2006
How to write a good online dating profile
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How to write a good online dating profile
A profile is to online dating what fuel is to a car. You need a good profile for time spent on a dating site to be worth your while. Basically, what you put in is what you get out of creating your profile. A little extra effort would go a long way. The following are points you should keep in mind.
Post photos. Despite glaring advantages, many people still do not post photos. It cannot be stressed enough how important a picture is in a profile. Your picture should show how you really look. It should neither be a polished glamor shot, nor a bad blurry photo. In addition to a head shot, you should also post full body shots. In general, better pictures directly translate into more people viewing your profile. When writing your profile, if there are things you do regularly, such as jogging, coffee-drinking, or perhaps things you cannot do without, like pets, being a vegan, a night owl, etc, include them in your profile. You don't want these things to become a bone of contention later.
Stay away from writing in an aggressive, or whiney tone. If you portray an aggressive nature, most users would move on to the next profile. In the same vein, using demeaning language, or engaging in self-aggrandizement would turn most people off. There is a thin line between confidence and shameless showboating.
How long should your profile be? The suggestion is, neither too short, nor too long. A very short profile that is, say, one sentence long, is unlikely to provide adequate information to convince somebody about taking the next step of contacting you.
The other extreme is a profile that goes on and on. Remember that people have hundreds, if not thousands of other profiles to read. If yours doesn't get to the point quickly, the reader's patience may run out, causing him/her to abandon your profile.
The best profile is a good synopsis of your important personal characteristics, as well as the characteristics you expect from the person you're looking for.If you are still at a loss on how to write a good profile, talk to people who have successfully met people online. You may be surprised what you learn.
The bottomline is, anything worth doing, is worth doing well. Your profile is a window into your world. It makes all the difference between getting no responses, and getting a lot. The latter of course is your goal, otherwise why be on a dating site at all.
from: oasisoflove.com - FREE Online Dating
How to write a good online dating profile
A profile is to online dating what fuel is to a car. You need a good profile for time spent on a dating site to be worth your while. Basically, what you put in is what you get out of creating your profile. A little extra effort would go a long way. The following are points you should keep in mind.
Post photos. Despite glaring advantages, many people still do not post photos. It cannot be stressed enough how important a picture is in a profile. Your picture should show how you really look. It should neither be a polished glamor shot, nor a bad blurry photo. In addition to a head shot, you should also post full body shots. In general, better pictures directly translate into more people viewing your profile. When writing your profile, if there are things you do regularly, such as jogging, coffee-drinking, or perhaps things you cannot do without, like pets, being a vegan, a night owl, etc, include them in your profile. You don't want these things to become a bone of contention later.
Stay away from writing in an aggressive, or whiney tone. If you portray an aggressive nature, most users would move on to the next profile. In the same vein, using demeaning language, or engaging in self-aggrandizement would turn most people off. There is a thin line between confidence and shameless showboating.
How long should your profile be? The suggestion is, neither too short, nor too long. A very short profile that is, say, one sentence long, is unlikely to provide adequate information to convince somebody about taking the next step of contacting you.
The other extreme is a profile that goes on and on. Remember that people have hundreds, if not thousands of other profiles to read. If yours doesn't get to the point quickly, the reader's patience may run out, causing him/her to abandon your profile.
The best profile is a good synopsis of your important personal characteristics, as well as the characteristics you expect from the person you're looking for.If you are still at a loss on how to write a good profile, talk to people who have successfully met people online. You may be surprised what you learn.
The bottomline is, anything worth doing, is worth doing well. Your profile is a window into your world. It makes all the difference between getting no responses, and getting a lot. The latter of course is your goal, otherwise why be on a dating site at all.
from: oasisoflove.com - FREE Online Dating
Sunday, February 5, 2006
friendship and penfriendship
Some Quotes about friends
"True friendship is like sound health; the value of it is seldom known until it be lost." -- Charles Caleb Colton
"Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born." Anais Nin "My friends are my estate." -- Emily Dickinson
"A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out."
"A friend is one who walks in when others walk out" -Walter Winchell
"A friend is someone who is there for you when he'd rather be anywhere else."
- Len Wein
"True friendship is like sound health; the value of it is seldom known until it be lost." -- Charles Caleb Colton
"Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born." Anais Nin "My friends are my estate." -- Emily Dickinson
"A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out."
"A friend is one who walks in when others walk out" -Walter Winchell
"A friend is someone who is there for you when he'd rather be anywhere else."
- Len Wein
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