Friends and Friendship- Who is friends, What is friendship

Friends and Friendship- Who is friends, What is friendship

A lot of people go through life with only a few friends. It seems that some have less than that. They have no one on whom they can call in good times or bad. There is no one with whom to bounce ideas around, or to talk about deep and troubling subjects. They have no one to call in times of need or difficulty. They are at the mercy of life, standing alone.

Others seem to have a multiple number of friends like google's PageRank which increases in cumulative. Wherever they go, people know them, and like to be around them. when a trouble strike, their biggest hesitation might be over which friend to call. They know exactly the person with whom to discuss the topics of inquiry and debate. Life is full of entertaining and invigorating relationships because it is full of friends. These friends will be like a Degree course in friendship.. When we study them we get lot of knowledge about friendship. They have a lot of ideas flowing and they discuss any topic which is hard to discuss.

Of course, some people are perfectly happy to operate with fewer friends. They might rather have a few deep and loyal friends, than many superficial ones. Others thrive best when friends are everywhere and numerous. It is not so much the number of friends that is important as is the possession of friends, period. Loyal and deep friendship is good. It doesn't care about the numbers, Even if you have one loyal trustable friend. it is better than to have hundreds of untrustable, superficial friends. With the trusted friends we can discuss our problem areas and get ideas for solving them also. These friends share their time with us to solve problems. But when you have lots of friends who are not loyal or trustable it is the case of the person who is not having any friends. Even after having hundreds of friends our mind can't able to find real, trustable friends.

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Friendship is a blessing...

Friendship is a blessing...

Friendship is a blessing, and a friend is the channel through whom great emotional, spiritual, and sometimes even physical blessings flow. Friends will cheer us when we"re sorrowful or depressed. Friends will challenge us to attain our orginal limits with encouragement when we allow ourselves not to go beyond our reasonable boundaries. Friends will motivate us when we"re ready to give in, and they can provide for us when life falls apart. Friends are there when all is well, and we want someone with whom to share life"s pleasant and memorable moments. We often just want them around, to have a good time, to laugh, to act silly, to enjoy some mutually liked activity. In how many ways have friends enriched our lives and made us feel loved, accepted, respected and cared for? Probably, too many to list, and the list grows daily.

When you act silly with friends around they also comes and join you and get the enjoyment that you are getting. In the dictionary of friendship there is no word named sorrow. Friends will enter into that word and friends break the word into peices. They motivate us to attain our goal. They will stand by our side when you need a support. you will tell about a girl/guy whom you love and will ask for help for the love. You can't tell the same to parents or any other before the love starts. In our life deciding factor also there is a friend and his/her friendship is helping you. When you get problem in that love all others will run from u but not your bet friend. They help us by challenging( a challenge which motivates us) and also motivates us for reaching our aim.

When you are in college or studies you ask doubts in the subjects not to the professor but to a friend. Friends never says no to anything. They will try to help us and try to solve the doubts. When you play a friend is the first person to cheer you when you do a record. Friends will be the first to treat us without any jealous mind. friends consider the record of yours as theirs and they feel happy by telling about the record to others. In life we share most of the time with friends. We can't share some topics with our parents but we can share any topic, with friends. friends research that topic as a judge and tell us the good's and bad's

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Friendship is everlasting...

Friendship is everlasting...

Friendship is only everlasting feature in this world. There may be biggest miracle which can change the entire world but even in that miracle also friendship will come out from its sleep. Friendship is like a banyan tree. Banyan tree seed is very small, but when it comes out of earth nothing can stop its growth. The same applies to friendship also. Friendship will reside in our heart like the banyan tree seed. When it finds the correct soil in another heart it starts its growth. at one stage when you get more friendly with that person it will become tree after that nothing in this world can stop it. Friends will try to find new ways to make you not to fall. Friends may not save but they never let you go to deep. Friends find innovative ways to stop you from falling and try to get some more help to lift you.

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True Friendships - How to Get true friends and friendships

True Friendships - How to Get true friends and friendships

True Friendship - Recognition

How can we find true friendships in this fast and selfish world. This world is not a permenent world and our life in this tempory world is very short like a thin string tied between two edges. In this time how can we find friends and friendships which is true and trustable. Friendships involves recognition or familarity with another's personality. Friends must share likes and dislikes, interest, views, passion of their life and world. This gives a lot of recognition with the person whom we need have friendship.

How can we recognize potential friendship? There is a lot of symptoms which includes mutual desire for companionship and perhaps a common bond in some topics similar to each other. Beyond that a genuine and mutual friendship involves a shared sense of caring and concern, a desire to see one another grow and develop, and a hope for each other to succeed in all aspects of life. True friendship involves action: doing something for someone else while expecting nothing in return; sharing thoughts and feelings without fear of judgment or negative criticism.

True Friendship - Relationship, Trust, Accountability

True friendship involves relationships. Those mutual attributes we mentioned above become the foundation in which recognition transpires into relationship. Many people say, "Oh, he's a good friend of mine," yet they never take time to spend time with that "good friend." Friendship takes time: time to get to know each other, time to build shared memories, time to invest in each other's growth.

Trust is essential to true friendship. We all need someone with whom we can share our lives, thoughts, feelings, and frustrations. We need to be able to share our deepest secrets with someone, without worrying that those secrets will end up on the Internet the next day! Failing to be trustworthy with those intimate secrets can destroy a friendship in a hurry. Faithfulness and loyalty are key to true friendship. Without them, we often feel betrayed, left out, and lonely. In true friendship, there is no backbiting, no negative thoughts, no turning away.

True friendship requires certain accountability factors. Real friends encourage one another and forgive one another where there has been an offense. Genuine friendship supports during times of struggle. Friends are dependable. In true friendship, unconditional love develops. We love our friends no matter what and we always want the best for our friends.

True Friendship - Solution to every problems

If you have a true friendship with some singles or personals, then you don't need to worry about any problems that you face. A true friendship is offen refered to the solutions that a person needs. When we are in trouble we can ask for soluton to the trustable true friends and friendship only. We can't expose our problems to others who are not having true friendship with us. But when we discuss our problem we get a solution from our friends, friends never expose our weekness and try to hide them from coming out. They give better solution than others. We can discuss any problem with friends who are true in their friendship.

True Friendship - Real Help in needed time

A real true friendship offer helping hands to the friends who are in trouble. As I said it as a solution for problems, true friends are also the helpers for others. Friends never let us go sink into problems. Instead friends try to rescue us from problem by helping us. With friends and friendship there will be a common bonding named helping. Friends never runaway from problem of other friends.

Real and true friendship involves freedom of choice, accountability, truth, and forgiveness. Real friendship looks at the heart, not just the "packaging." Genuine friendship loves for love's sake, not just for what it can get in return. True friendship is both challenging and exciting. It risks, it overlooks faults, and it loves unconditionally, but it also involves being truthful, even though it may hurt. Genuine friendship, also called "agape" love, comes from the Lord. When we've offended a true friend - whether by breaking a trust or by speaking the truth with love - we risk losing that friendship. We must be careful not to break the trust. But when not speaking the truth will cause greater hurt in our friend's life, we must be willing to sacrifice our needs for those of our friend. That is true friendship.

So never offend any true friendship try to get more true friendships in this earth.

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Long distance friends and Long term friendship

Long distance friends and Long term friendship

Long distance friends and Long term friendship
We may get a lot of short term friendship which is like getting into theater and leaving after the show is over. These will not stay in our hearts. But when we get a long term friendships It stays in the mind and brain. Long term friendships will emerge from those who are in regular contacts and near by. Long distance relationships rarely survive for a long time. It is like "I will think about my long distance friend may be once in a year". In this friendship also there is some exceptions. People who is in regular contact with each other will get a long term friendship. They will think about friendships a lot more than others. Friends who are in least physical distance gets a everlasting friendship than a long distance friendship. But for some long term friendship Distance is not a major factor. Even after being seperated from thousand miles away people stay as friends forever.

Communication with Friend and long term friendship

For getting good long term friendship communication and effort of strengthening friendship is the key component. Friendship will survive when there is a regular contacts. In this Information world there is lot of ways for communications. Cards, Emails, Short messages, gifts, get-together, Telephones and a lot of ways. We need to keep our childhood friends also. It is important for continuty in our lives.The childhood memories are unforgettable for any person in this world. The most enjoyable time in our entire life is during childhood days. When we get friends during that time will also be ever enjoyable. There are many friends who used to send lot og greetings, some forwarded message from one friend to another. These persons really interested in our friendship and tries to keep our friendship alive. If you don't have anything to say to your friend, Just say a "HI". It will keep you in touch with the friends.Emails is great! It helps us a lot in keeping our friendship alive. A written communication is a precious jewel in our friendship. The same is for phone cal. When we are doing these two things, we think about the friendship between us not the other things. In our mind nothing comes thank our friendship. So Communication is a must in long term friendships. There is another biggest jewel in the Friendships which is precious than kohinoor diamond. It is sharing physical vibration in same room and experienceing with all your senses. Visit the long distance friend once in a while. make some time for meeting him physically rather than sending emails. It creates a lot of surpraises by strengthing your friendships and never let it die. A physical contact is a best way to express ourselves that "I CARE OUR FRIENDSHIP". try to make a visit to your long distance, long term friendships.

Conclusion

Close distance friendships tend to survive as long term friendships and also the friendships which are in regular contact will also help in long term friendship. Friendships which is lasting for lifetime is very precious in this fast running world and also it is very important to have atleast some long term friendship because they are the friends who give their shoulders for us when we are in need of support.

So have you found what will be the answers for the above questions. The answer is very simple and easy. its "COMMUNICATION". Communication is a best way to keep friendships survive. tell a thanks to Alexander Graham Bell, Tim berners lee and others who created the devices for effective communication and find long term friendships

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Friendship, The Hidden treasure for human kind

Penfriends - one name for the friendship which we create with a person whose face is faraway from us. This friendship is created between two singles by hearts not by skin. There is a lot of names for penfriends, names like penpals, personals are refering penfriends only. Getting a friend or group of friends is not a easy job for mankind. For getting a friendship from one person from heart the people must work a lot for that.

There is a lot of ways to get introduced to other singles or personals. some traditional ways is getting introduction by our own friend to their friends group. This method is very old method of getting introduced. There is a small problem with this kind of introduction. we may be of good character for our own friend, But we cannot think like that for his/her friends. At that time not only our relationship with those new friends group broke but also the friendship of our own friend with them also brokes.

In this internet world there is more ways to get ourselves introduced to others. Some are by groups. There is a lot of penfriends group where we get friendship by emails, Some use the chatrooms. If we log into any chatrooms like yahoo chat and msn chat we can see a lot of people who is chatting with their new friends.

After getting introduced these friends try to make the relationship more stronger by constant communication through telephone, emails, shareing gifts etc. Once they get comfortable with the person they try to meet in real to know each other better.

Friendship is a gift of mankind. Since we have a good friendship heart only we live in this world. Without good heart we can't go anywhere. People will ignore us and won't help us when we are in trouble. Friendship is between two minds, It involves a lot of emotional feelings. When you have a friend who can share your feelings, you will be the happiest person in this world. when we have a friend they never let us alone.

Life without a good friend is meaningless. For getting a good penfriend or a penpals we need to work hard with pure friendly heart. Getting a person as a penfriend by mouth is simple. But for getting a penfriend who tells you as a friends from heart will last long for Life.Penfriendship is a best method to know each and every person mind because friends comes with different character which we don't know.

There is a lot of singles who meet as a strangers first then get friendship and get married. In this kind of friendship both the person will know each other better. When you marry and give the status as a lifepartner to a person who know about you fully, then that relationship bonding never fails at any cost.

Love is also one kind of friendship where the personals who are in love will open their heart to others which is also happening in friendship. Friends are the best ways to find a persons character. By looking into your friends circle any one can tell about you and your character. So only There is a english proverb with a meaning of "Tell your Friends, I will tell your character.". There is some different persons in the friendship circle. A person who is having only bad friends may also live as good. A person whose friends are good may also lead to bad life. It changes depending upon person to person.

Friends will giveup anything to others but not their friendship. Friends or pals comes with you where ever you go. We may have a lot of Friends during our happy times. But the person who stays with us during our sad times is the only best friend or friends we got. As we said friendship lies in hearts, when the heart is sad the friend must comfort that heart.

Friends bring joy to the mind. They takes all our sorrows by giving happy times. Friendship never expect anything from us, Instead it gives everything that we ask. meaning of true friendship lies in this. When a friend expects something from us then there is some problem in our relationship. friendship means sharing. No one can bet us that we don't know anything about our friends. If we don't know about friends whom we have then we are not considering them as true friends. There won't be any secrets in the life of friends. friends share everything within friendship.

So Get friends and get going friends...

Interested! Stay tuned with your friends and me. lets make a good friendly time.

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Telephone Manners

Telephone Manners

Q. What is the proper way to answer the phone?
A. When answering the phone at your desk say..."Hello, this is Mr. Smith" Do not say phrases such as "Mr. Smith here!" or simply "Hello".

Q. Is it necessary to apologize for not immediately returning a phone call that had been originally initiated by yourself?
A. All telephone calls should be promptly returned, regardless of who initiated the original phone call.

Q. What is the polite way to leave a voice mail message?
A. Repeat your name and telephone number twice when leaving a voice mail message.

Q. Is it rude to use your cell phone in a social environment?
A. Always use discretion when using a cellular phone in a social environment; refrain from placing cell phone calls and only answer cellular calls after excusing yourself from the immediate area.

Q. Are speakerphones rude?
A. No, simply ask permission before putting a person on the telephone's speakerphone. Phone etiquette telephone etiquette telephone manners phone manners

Q. What is the proper etiquette when using CALLER ID?
A. When using CALLER ID, avoid greeting a caller by using his name before he says "Hello" and identifies himself.

Q. Who calls back when disconnected on the telephone?
A. When there is poor telephone connection or when you are disconnected, the individual who originated/initiated the call is responsible for calling back the other party.

Q. If you have received a phone call from someone whose number you did not have originally, but it was captured on Caller ID (no message was left on your voice mail) is it inappropriate to call the person back?
A. No, it is appropriate to call someone back only when he or she requests a call back and leaves their return phone number.

Q. When receiving a telephone call at work, should you say the name of the company?
A. If you are answering the telephone at a business, it is polite to state the company’s name in your greeting.

Q. What is the best way to utilize a home-office (SOHO) telephone system?
A. If you have a home-based business...Install a second line for business-use only and have an automatic answering system that picks up automatically if you are on the other line. Therefore, eliminating busy signals and portraying a professional image to your clients.